"I don't really have a job, but I can understand why one would hate it if they were so burdened." --Oscar Wilde (supposedly but I don't know for sure)
The number of people who are absolutely unhappy at work is astounding! Nearly every day some article or news story crosses my screen encouraging me to find a new job, learn how to cope with an nut-case boss or negotiate a raise.
I fully appreciate the role the company plays in this mass discontent but is it possible that everywhere is so bad that everyone who works there wants to change jobs? How much am I responsible for my own bliss at work?
There are lots of things I can't control in my life. No matter how much they frustrate me, the only real thing I can do is control my reaction to them. There is no doubt that some people find themselves in jobs that are a bad fit and that they stay in them for reasons that make them feel trapped. But running away and changing jobs is not usually where we are going to find bliss at work.
There are some concrete strategies you can employ to achieve a greater sense of bliss at work. No one seems to be talking about them, so I will.
Understand how your job affects the jobs of others. Usually what we do either feeds off of or into the work of someone else in the organization. If we understand this process flow, we will understand the importance of what we do.
Don't feed the gossip mill. Gossip behind the backs of others and I guarantee there will be people talking after you leave the room and you probably wouldn't like what they are saying.
Cut the complaining. Negativity only breeds negativity. Look at the positives and if you can't see any, make them happen. I'm not saying that you need to be Pollyanna on a rainy day but most of what you hate about your job is in the way you look at it, not in the job itself. If you have suggestions for improvement, write them up and take them to your boss. Save them for evaluation time.
Be likable and friendly to your coworkers and to your superiors. I hate to admit it but much of life is a popularity contest. When we were in high-school, there were popular people and the rest of us. The secret of popularity is being likable, non-judgemental and positive with integrity. If your coworkers like you, they won't be jealous or resentful of your success. If your bosses and supervisors like you, they will more likely champion your advancement in the organziation when promotions are on the horizon.
Mentor AND be mentored. Older folks on the job have a lot to offer. Younger folks do to. It's just that they have differences. If you are one of the people who can bridge the gap between the baby boomers and the milenials, work will be more fulfilling. Instead of judging how "they" are, why not learn about them and share experiences in a non-judgmental way. Milenials, you might be able to learn from the experience of those boomers and boomers, you could probably use a little help keeping up with the changes that seem to be everywhere.
Help others do better and feel better about being there. Whether you simply hold the door for someone or you offer to help with with some of their tasks, working collaboratively, smiling, contributing and appreciating your coworkers will not only make their day better, it will do as much for yours.
Document your achievements and successes. Keep a working journal that indicates progress and/or completion of projects, special accomplishments, and achievements. Set improvement goals every day and comment on your successes. Also comment on special things that make your day seem lighter and more pleasant. "Stella was really glad about getting her vacation request approved." "John seemed to really appreciate my comments on the report he made." Not only will you feel better about the job you do, you'll also have useful information that you can use to contribute to your evaluation.
Establish your own IDP. (Individual Development Plan) Look at the positions of those people who are one or two rungs above you on the ladder. Look at others who perform similar jobs better than you do. What goals and practical steps can you set and take to be more successful and more promotable at work?
Even if you are in a job that is a bad fit, it is your job for now. Success in it will better your chances of finding a position that is more suited to you.
Friday, November 30, 2007
Do You Look Forward to Going to Work
I can't tell you how many people I've interviewed who have said that the thing they like best about their jobs is going home at the end of the day. Why do they hate their job? And, if they hate their job so much, why do they do it?
Let's face it. Some people just like to complain. It's the way they live. But that can't be everybody! What's going on? Here are a few ideas to help you feel a bit more postive during your commute.
Everything is boring once in a while. Just because doing your job seems a little tedious or repetitive, it doesn't mean it's time to walk away. Life has its ups and downs. There is a certain amount of repitition in everything and boredom is really in the eye of the beholder. You have to get past both of these obstacles and when you do, you may be glad you stuck around.
Consider inovation. If your job is boring and repetitive, look for ways of making the work easier or smarter or converting what you do you into a game. I knew a customer service rep in California who kept a tally of kinds of people she spoke to. Now her classifications weren't the most kind in the world but she actually saw a pattern of problems and when she discussed it, the pattern--not the game, with her boss, it resulted in process changes that made their jobs easier.
On the other hand, it might be time for a change. It may be time to find a new job, set your eyes on new horizons and do something about your own discontent. There are many people who have buried themselvs deep into jobs that mean little more than a paycheck to them. They don't value what they do at all.
These are the first to complain about being underpaid. These complainers are in a sense, correct. They are not paid appropriately for the amount of discomfort their jobs cause them even if the salary is appropriate for the position. If what the complainers are saying is, "You can't pay me enough to do this," they are certainly in the wrong job. On the other hand, if they complain about everything, perhaps the problem isn't the job.
Sometimes other causes of our discontent are spilling over into our jobs. Maybe I argued with my spouse or bounced a check or got a flat tire. If I spend most of my working time thinking about all the difficulties I have at home, my emotions will affect my job and I won't be happy there. In fact, I won't be happy anywhere. I need to make some internal changes before I start searching for a new job.
Let's face it. Some people just like to complain. It's the way they live. But that can't be everybody! What's going on? Here are a few ideas to help you feel a bit more postive during your commute.
Everything is boring once in a while. Just because doing your job seems a little tedious or repetitive, it doesn't mean it's time to walk away. Life has its ups and downs. There is a certain amount of repitition in everything and boredom is really in the eye of the beholder. You have to get past both of these obstacles and when you do, you may be glad you stuck around.
Consider inovation. If your job is boring and repetitive, look for ways of making the work easier or smarter or converting what you do you into a game. I knew a customer service rep in California who kept a tally of kinds of people she spoke to. Now her classifications weren't the most kind in the world but she actually saw a pattern of problems and when she discussed it, the pattern--not the game, with her boss, it resulted in process changes that made their jobs easier.
On the other hand, it might be time for a change. It may be time to find a new job, set your eyes on new horizons and do something about your own discontent. There are many people who have buried themselvs deep into jobs that mean little more than a paycheck to them. They don't value what they do at all.
These are the first to complain about being underpaid. These complainers are in a sense, correct. They are not paid appropriately for the amount of discomfort their jobs cause them even if the salary is appropriate for the position. If what the complainers are saying is, "You can't pay me enough to do this," they are certainly in the wrong job. On the other hand, if they complain about everything, perhaps the problem isn't the job.
Sometimes other causes of our discontent are spilling over into our jobs. Maybe I argued with my spouse or bounced a check or got a flat tire. If I spend most of my working time thinking about all the difficulties I have at home, my emotions will affect my job and I won't be happy there. In fact, I won't be happy anywhere. I need to make some internal changes before I start searching for a new job.
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